Protocol & FAQ
Protocols: I have specific expectations of those I see. Pay close attention to the following and we’ll both enjoy our time together.
- On the day of your session, make sure you are hydrated, and have eaten a light meal within an hour or two of your start time.
- Be clean. Make your body ready for Me. Take a thorough shower before you come. This is a sign of respect. Don’t wear cologne as it covers up the smell of your skin, and My arousal.
- Be honest. If there is something that you feel needs to be discussed prior to your session, bring it up.
- Do not show up intoxicated. If I sense that you are, and I probably will, you will forfeit your session tribute, be asked to leave, and not allowed to return.
- Be punctual. If you arrive early you will be made to wait until your start time. If you are late your session time will not be extended due to sessions scheduled after you.
- Though gifts are not expected, they are welcome and show me you are appreciative of my time and skills. See my Amazon and Throne wishlists. A thoughtful bouquet of flowers is also a perfect gift.
- After a session, I welcome honest discussions of topics you’re interested in sharing as I offer a shame-free space, but do so politely and with an awareness of when your session time ends.
- Be respectful of My play space.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I contact you?
The best way to initiate contact with me is by submitting your application. Make sure to read through my website before you do, if you haven’t already. Answer the questions on your application with thoughtfulness and introspection about what you’re wanting to experience. First impressions are important, and you only get one chance.
How should I address you?
You may address me as Mistress.
How should I behave when corresponding with you?
I expect you to be polite, honest, respectful of my time, and concise.
What are some ways for me to show that I am indeed serious about pursuing a session with you?
Reading my website thoroughly, following my protocols, filling out my application with thoughtfulness and self reflection, sending a gift from my Throne or Amazon wishlists to get my attention and make your application stand out.
What is your approach to a session?
FemDomme is a spiritual practice for me, and is strictly the type of session I offer. From the list of our mutual interests I will choose which activities we engage in as control over your desires is exactly what I want. My sessions are intentional but happen organically as I love responding to the energy in the room, but I also create space to pivot in case we need to pivot. If you are looking to script-write your own session, I am not the domme for you.
When can we discuss what a session might look like?
For sessions discussions beyond the logistics of arranging to see me, I offer the opportunity to discuss your desires with me and maybe do a bit of role play on NiteFlirt and LoyalFans. For those new to me, I’ve found it to be helpful for answering questions and having a bit of time with me before our scheduled time together.
How do I make an appointment with you?
Fill out an application, go through a quick non-invasive screening process, send your deposit, and arrange a date! It’s that easy and takes 24-48 hours.
When will I get a response from you about my application?
Practice patience when waiting for My responses. Multiple emails will be ignored. At times I will step away from correspondence to take a break and refresh, but will usually get back to you within 48 hours.
When are you typically available for a session?
Although I have a very flexible schedule, daytime hours work best for my clients and myself. Having said that I am able to session from early morning hours to late into the evening. Same day sessions are only available to regular clients, but depending on my availability, if you can’t wait I do offer sessions for double my usual tribute.
What if I need to cancel once I’ve already booked?
I understand that life happens. Be sure to email me ASAP once you know you can’t make it. Canceling will forfeit your deposit and you will need to send one again when you reschedule. If I don’t hear from you and you are a no show, it will be difficult to book me again. I will make exceptions for those who send the full tribute for the session they missed.
What if I am unable to session with you in person?
I offer phone NiteFlirt and LoyalFan calls and video session options for long-distance or to play in-between sessions. For long-distance play, fill out the application as you would for an in-person session, and check the box for online play.
Where is your play space located?
My play space is located in Bucktown, near the 90/94 expressway, just outside of downtown Chicago.
Is your dungeon accessible?
Although it is located on the first floor, there is one step down upon entering the building, then one step up to enter the main dungeon space.
Do you offer long-term service, training, and collaring?
For me, these types of relationships develop organically over years and is a mutually agreed upon arrangement for both the submissive and myself. I take the process seriously. Connection, communication, mutual respect, and chemistry are a few prerequisites for a service based dynamic. It is not based on looks, age, income, physical abilities, or gender. It’s about energy. This type of service isn’t for everyone.